BUSHMAN - 24|11|2024
“Sure, baby, that’s where I belong.”
“What does belong mean?”
The post-movie discussion explored how the film aligned with our current theme of belonging—how one can feel a sense of belonging to a place, a person, or an idea.
Aftersunnettes homed in on a character we nicknamed “Peanut Lady,” who shares peanuts with Gabriel at a bar and asks, “Do you eat them there?” to which he responds, “We grow them.” This curious flirtation led to the pair spending the night together, but by morning her curiosity seemed to shift to annoyance. She asked him if he always wore “that thing around your neck” (referring to his flute) and cautioned him not to use her toothbrush.
The initial interaction at the bar brought laughter to the house when Peanut Lady asked, “What else do you eat?” and Gabriel replied, “Babies’ legs!”
This “otherness” was further exemplified in awkward interactions with the overly friendly Felix, who compliments Gabriel’s attire by calling it a “costume.” (Aftersun Super Trivia: Felix is Henry from Eraserhead!)
Aftersunnettes delved into the theme of exoticism, debating whether the film portrayed a fetishization of the Black body or simply reflected natural curiosity. For instance, when Gabriel and a female character are intimate, she plays with his hair and describes it as “spongy, like a nest.” While some saw this as an innocent description of something unfamiliar, others viewed it as a derogatory fetishization of Black hair.

We won’t spoil the whole film because you definitely need to seek this one out! About three-quarters of the way through, real-life events dictate how the rest of the story unfolds. You could call this a perfect film essay—one that explores themes and ideas through narration, stunning visuals, and documentary footage.
The film resonated with many Sunnettes, reflecting their own experiences of feeling like outsiders and prompting contemplation of how many people today are strangers in strange lands.
Other notable mentions at this screening included Ajay’s delicious Hungry Lulu snacks, the heartwarming short film Hair Love, and the quote: “A sentence understood is more intimate than a kiss.”
Until next time, look after each other—and say hi to a
stranger today!







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